Starting university is one of the most exciting and nerve-wracking chapters in a young person’s life. For many South African students, orientation week marks the first real taste of independence, new friendships, and the challenge of adapting to an entirely different environment. Orientation is designed to welcome you, introduce you to campus life, and get you acquainted with academic and social opportunities — but beyond the official programs, there are some unwritten rules you’ll need to navigate to survive and thrive.
Here’s your guide to the essential, unofficial survival tactics for first-year orientation at SA universities:
1. Show Up (But Don’t Be Overeager)
It sounds simple, but the very first rule is: Attend orientation events. Even if you feel shy or anxious, showing up is your first step toward integration. Orientation activities help you learn about campus services, meet other students, and find your way around.
However, avoid the temptation to attend every single event. Orientation week can be intense and overwhelming. Pace yourself. Prioritize the sessions relevant to your faculty or interests and leave space for rest and downtime. Your energy is precious, and burning out in the first week is common.
2. Dress Smartly, But Comfortably
You’ll be moving around a lot — from halls and lecture venues to social spots on campus. Wearing something that’s both comfortable and presentable is key.
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Avoid brand new shoes that will give you blisters.
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Dress in layers — South African weather can be unpredictable, especially in spring.
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Represent your new university spirit by wearing campus colors or branded gear, but don’t feel pressured to buy expensive merchandise just yet.
Looking neat and approachable helps make a good first impression, but comfort keeps you going through long orientation days.
3. Learn Your Campus Layout Early
Many first-years underestimate how much time is wasted wandering campus like a lost tourist. The campus can be a maze — especially large universities like Wits, UCT, or UP.
Make a point to get a campus map and use your phone’s GPS if you can. Early orientation is the perfect time to learn key locations like your faculty buildings, libraries, student services, and popular hangouts.
If you see upperclassmen or orientation leaders around, don’t hesitate to ask for directions. Most are happy to help.
4. Network, But Don’t Force It
One of the biggest benefits of orientation is meeting new people. Your classmates, residence mates, student leaders, and even lecturers can be future study buddies, mentors, or lifelong friends.
However, it’s easy to fall into the trap of trying too hard to “network.” Forced small talk or desperate attempts to fit in often backfire and leave you drained.
Focus instead on genuine connections. Look for people who share your interests or study program, and let friendships develop naturally over shared experiences.
5. Beware the FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)
Orientation week is packed with social events, parties, club fairs, and campus tours. The buzz can be electrifying, making it tempting to say yes to everything.
Here’s the thing: You don’t have to do it all. In fact, trying to be everywhere can exhaust you physically and mentally. Also, some parties or activities may not be safe or aligned with your values.
Trust your gut. Prioritize quality over quantity. It’s better to enjoy a few moments fully than stretch yourself thin trying to chase every event.
6. Respect Residence Culture and Rules
If you’re staying in a university residence, be prepared to quickly learn and adapt to its culture — the unwritten rules of residence life can be intense.
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Respect quiet hours: Late-night noise complaints are common and can affect your relationships with housemates.
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Keep shared spaces clean: Don’t leave your mess for others to clean up.
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Participate in residence activities if you can, but also maintain your own boundaries.
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Be mindful of older students and their traditions, but don’t feel pressured to conform completely.
Remember, your residence is your first community on campus, and respect goes a long way.
7. Stay Alert to Safety and Scams
South African campuses are generally safe, but like any public space, orientation week can bring opportunities for scams or unsafe situations.
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Don’t share personal information like your student number or banking details unnecessarily.
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Avoid walking alone at night or in poorly lit areas.
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Be cautious of strangers who ask for money or offer “exclusive” deals.
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If an event or party feels unsafe, leave or seek help immediately.
Many universities have security services and student safety apps — familiarize yourself with these early on.
8. Take Notes (Yes, Even During Orientation)
It might feel boring or overwhelming at times, but orientation week is packed with crucial information — from how to register for classes, apply for bursaries, use the library system, to knowing your academic calendar.
Bring a notebook or use a note app on your phone and jot down important details. You’ll thank yourself later when you need to find deadlines or contacts without endlessly searching.
9. Don’t Ignore Your Mental Health
Orientation is a whirlwind of new experiences that can sometimes lead to stress, anxiety, or homesickness. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed or question if you belong.
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Take breaks when you need them.
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Find support networks — campus counseling centers, peer support groups, or student wellness programs.
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Connect with family and old friends for emotional grounding.
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Practice self-care: eat well, sleep enough, and exercise if you can.
Remember, surviving orientation means more than just attending events — it’s about starting your university journey in a way that protects your well-being.
10. Be Open, But Stay True to Yourself
You’ll meet people from all walks of life and backgrounds during orientation. Embrace the diversity and be open to new perspectives and friendships.
At the same time, don’t feel pressured to change who you are to fit in. Authenticity attracts the right people and builds stronger, longer-lasting connections.
Final Thoughts: Orientation is Just the Beginning
Orientation week is a launching pad — it introduces you to university life, but it’s only the start of your journey. Following these unwritten rules can help you navigate the chaos with confidence, set healthy habits, and build a solid foundation for your studies.
Remember, everyone is figuring it out as they go, so cut yourself some slack and enjoy the ride. Before you know it, you’ll be a seasoned second-year student with your own stories to tell.
